LIFE MUST GOING ON.....

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There are many reasons you might want to start a new life and many ways you could approach this decision....

For example:- perhaps you just ended an abusive relationship and have to figure out how to get started with a new, healthy, happy life away from your abuser

Determine your motivation:- 
You need to think carefully to determine why you feel the need to start a new life. There are many valid reasons why you might do so, but there are also reasons that aren’t so helpful....

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• if you’re a new empty-nester facing life without kids in the house for the first time in decades, you might appropriately think it’s time to start a new stage of your life: you aren’t a primary caretaker for your children anymore and can reframe your life to focus more on you.. On the other hand, using a life change to escape unpleasant feelings isn’t a good idea, since this avoidance doesn’t address the real issues you may be having. Emotions tend to follow you wherever you go. You have to deal with them before you can start a truly fresh life....
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• Consider whether you have recently experienced any major life events:-
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Major life events, such getting married, as a death in the family, a loss of a relationship or job, a change in your financial or health status, moving to a new place, or becoming pregnant, can have a profound effect on your emotions. Some of these may make you happier, while others can trigger stress, depression and/or  anxiety If you have just experienced a major life  event, keep in mind that your judgment may not be  functioning at its best, and consider waiting to make  any major decisions..If you have just experienced a major loss, allow yourself time to grieve it.mourning is a necessary process of examining and processing your feelings of grief and adjusting to life after your loss. You don’t have to feel rushed into changes or pressured to “get over it” right away.

Examine your past:-

To make sure that starting your new life is as effective as you hope, think about your past patterns. You want to make sure that you’re making this change from the right motivations, not as a way to run from your past. Running away from problems doesn’t ultimately fix them....

Examine your values:-

Your personal values are your roadmap for living. They’re the very core of what you believe: about yourself, about others, about life in general. It’s important to examine what your values are before making a major decision such as starting a new life. Once you know what is most important to you, you can ensure that you make the right decisions to prioritize those values...
Accepting who you are is the first step to making big changes...

Try the Best Possible Self exercise:-

This exercise can help you figure out what goals to set and what changes you will need to make. Research suggests that doing it can make you feel happier and more motivated..
Take a moment to imagine yourself at some point in the future. In this future, you have been granted the magical power to achieve all of your hopes and dreams...
You are exactly who and what you want to be


Make a plan to achieve physical changes:-

For some people, changing their health condition or fitness level can feel like getting a fresh start on life Perhaps you’ve been overweight for some time and want to feel healthier...
Perhaps you’ve always been pretty sedentary but have decided you’d like to learn to run marathons. Fortunately, physical changes are some of the easiest to make. You can develop healthy habits and talk with your doctor about what plans are right for you...

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